***

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Cookies

Madelyn and I began our very first easter tradition today!  Since she was too little last year to really care, I didn't bother doing any holiday activities with her.  This year, however, has been a blast.  On top of decorating the house, art projects, picking out outfits, and the anticipation of egg hunts, we made our very own cookies!!  Her Grammie bought some Easter cookie cutters for her and so we put them to use by making a cookie for each of our family members (minus Daddy because we plan to do a few with him as well).   Obivously, I can't multi task that much because this time I videoed everything but got very little pictures. 
Anyway, she is getting to be such a smart little girl.  We were able to do a "lesson" in with the cookies on shapes and colors - via cookie cutters,sprinkles,and jelly beans.  She knew all the shapes and most of the colors!  And, although this has nothing to do with this post, she is up to four in counting!  Yay!  I really love getting to do all these "moments" with Madelyn.  I feel like I have been such a visible part of the memories she's making.

Getting ready to roll the dough!



Mmmm....


Our "tools"


Decorating Pops' cookie


Finished products 2010!
 

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

To keep my train of thought.

So, this post won't really be one that interests any of you.  BUT, I need somewhere to write down the ideas I have for Madelyn's birthday.  I know, that's what they make notebook paper for, but that tends to get lost around here.  So, please, disregard this post and forgive me for introducing my love for lists so abruptly by actually doing a list. 
Now, I was thinking about doing just a small beach birthday for family on the weekend before and that being it.  I mean, she's turning two, which IS a big deal, but isn't one of those milestone birthdays.  Then, I thought about doing a get together at my house with a few of the ladies and kids from the playgroup on Madelyn's actual birthday but still keeping it simple.  NOW, I'm wondering if I should do a small party on the weekend for family at the beach and then do a fiesta themed party at the house on her birthday (Madelyn is a cinco de mayo baby).  However, I don't want to hurt my in law's feelings by doing more of a party on a day they can't be there.  So, should I just do a "big" party on the weekend --fiesta themed--and suck it up?? 
I also know that Madelyn is in love with Dora now--which I guess I could actually incorporate that since it kinda goes with the theme....But would she really care if I just left Dora out and kept it all fiesta because I'm worrying that I'd get too complex with both things in one....

Okay, so anyway, this is what I'm thinking for a fiesta:

FOOD: mini tacos,seven layer dip/chips, non alcoholic margaritas (and if on the weekend, maybe the real thing for adults),quesidillas w/ sour creme and quacamole, fruit/veggies, cheese, cake, cookies, chili pepper shaped gummies.... ***I need some more kid friendly foods-Any suggestions??

DECORATIONS:  mini maraca key chains,chili paper confetti,sombrero straws,fiesta bubbles,donkey pinata table decorations, donkey pinata,chili pepper picks for fruit & cheese, children's sombreros....Anything else I should ABSOLUTELY have?

ENTERTAINMENT: pinata, hula hoops, I would LOVE an inflatable water slide if I could find one for a decent price, What else??

Okay, so obviously I need some help on a lot of decisions.  What party idea should I go with?  And what are some suggestions if I go with one of these?

And honestly, I may possibly change my mind AGAIN.  So, next week, this may not even apply anymore.  Thanks for letting me waste a little internet space!

Friday, March 26, 2010

How can I get on to her?

Seriously, sometimes it's just too hard to correct a wrong.  Especially when it's so cute and you really can't help but laugh.  So, what did I do?  I took pictures!  THEN told her not to do it again.  We'll see how that goes. 

Madelyn was being really quiet in her playroom yesterday.  Quiet usually means trouble around here.  So, I peeked in to see what she was doing.  At that very moment, Madelyn poured a play kitchen cup full of dog bowl water onto Bruce's head (our great dane).  I have no idea what she thought she was doing.  Either she thought he was thirsty, or that he needed a bath.  Whatever the case was, I was pretty stunned and told her to stop playing in the water and had her help me clean the mess.  (I was too in the moment to think to snap a pic of this.) So, fast forward to when Jeremy gets home.  He and I are standing in the kitchen talking when I hear "here you go barley."  (Barley is how Madelyn says Harley-our pug's name.)  I don't know what made me think to look in on her, but I did.  This is the first pic I saw.


Yep, she's back at the dog bowls.
(Nevermind the terrible temporary dog beds--theirs had had it.)

So, I sit and watch her for just a few minutes to see exactly what it was she was doing.  She had gotten the play spoon from her kitchen, and was "feeding" Harley a spoonful at a time.  She'd get a scoop, take it to him, dump it, and say "here you go Barley."  She also very well knew she was doing something wrong, because when she saw me walk by, she stopped what she was doing, smiled, and blew me two kisses.  It really was cute and I even called Jeremy in there to watch when she started back up--she thought I had walked away.  However, when I actually went into the room, I was not so pleased.  Here's a visual for you...


Oh yeah, look closely.  There is water in their food.  That little stinker used the cup I previously wrote about to add a little water.  Maybe she felt Harley could eat it better if it was softened a little.  Or, maybe she was just experimenting?



See that cup?  That's the one that she used for all that water in the dog food.  She MUST have been there a while.  The spoon in the dog bowl is obviously the one she used to feed Harley with too.

All this said, I did tell her not to play in the water anymore and that her bubbas could get their own food/water.  I told her that if she did it again, I'd be very upset. Well, she obviously got it because she is sitting beside me looking at the pictures saying "I not." I am assuming she's telling me that she either isn't supposed to do this, or that she didn't do this again.  Oh well, some things are just easier to laugh off.  Here's a final pic of a very happy and probably full Harley.




Thursday, March 25, 2010

Happy Easter time!!

We've set out decorations, bought the outfits, and now we're beginning to do the projects!  Here's Madelyn's very first Easter project.  She knew exactly what it was when I drew it out.  "Egg," she said.  I let her use the markers and color away.  When she was done, a little glitter and crinkle cut paper, and voila! 


Happy Easter!!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

All done up


Madelyn totally gets the concept of makeup.  However, she does not know when enough is enough.  I gave her my old eye shadow while I was putting makeup on this morning, and this is the outcome.  A very B-E-A utiful little girl.  She's absolutely checking herself out in the second picture and thinks that she is a masterpiece.  (And check out those puckered lips in the first pic--haha.)

Monday, March 22, 2010

My baby is growing up

Madelyn left me last night :( She up and decided she wanted to go to her Nana's. Not a cry, not a hug--without being forced, NO hesitation. 
We had a weekend away at Jessica's, Jeremy's sister.  On our way home, she decided she wanted to see her Brian, my brother.  So, we gave him and my parents a call and met them for dinner.  After dinner, she wanted to ride with Brian, so I let him ride with her and I rode with my parents. We all went back to our house and while there, my mom asked if she wanted to go home with her.  She had no problem saying yes.  After a little while, my parents got ready to go.  So what does Madelyn do?  Asks for her shoes and her baby.  We were all surprised.  No one thought she'd actually willingly go.  So, I packed her up, loaded her in the car, and she waved bye to me.
I called my mom later that night to ask a question, and she said Madelyn was completely fine and was playing with the dogs.  This morning, she woke up, cried for me about a minute, and went BACK to sleep.  When she woke up for good, she was perfectly content eating her cereal and watching tv with her Nana.  She didn't even ask where I was.
This is a bittersweet day.  It was actually nice getting some time for Jeremy and myself and I'm so proud of her for being a "big" girl.  It was also nice sleeping in a little late, although my internal alarm clock had me up not too long after Madelyn's normal time to wake up. It is SO quite around here.  BUT,  I don't know if I'm ready for her to WANT to leave me. It got sorta hard to breath and I may have had a small anxeity attack.  (Not from worrying about her.  I know she's fine when she's with family. ) 
Oddly, I feel that having this time to myself makes me a bad mom. I know this isn't true, and in fact, I'll be the first to say I'm a GREAT mom.  It's probably the one thing I KNOW I'm good at. I guess the problem is, after almost two years of being with someone day in and day out (with the occasional night away), I'm beginning to gradually reconstruct my social life.  Just this week, I will be out of the house both Thursday and Friday night.  Jeremy will have Madelyn, so again, I know she's safe.  Then a few weeks from now, we have a charity event for Jeremy's job we've been asked to attend.  Here again, she will be away for the night. Then, we'll be in New Orleans celebrating some friends of ours last few days of "freedom." (They'll be getting married in May.)  Madelyn will spend the weekend with her Grammie and Papaw.  I feel so selfish taking some time to myself though, even if some of the events are obligations. There's no way to rationalize it. Jeremy has told me over and over and over that I'm pretty much crazy.  I know it's okay to do stuff and I definately know I need it, but it just feels so... wierd and selfish. 
 

Friday, March 19, 2010

Update

Just an update to all the fundraising opportunities.  My friend Krissy who is doing the NILMDTS "cutest family" contest is in the lead for her region with 85 votes!!!  Yay to everyone who has helped her out and in turn, donated to a very good cause :) Also, I only have $30 left to go with my March of Dimes goal.  How great would it be to be able to go above and beyond for all these children and families?  Thanks again for everyone who has donated or even given their blessing to us in our efforts!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Helping out more families :)

I have a very wonderful friend who has graciously offerred to be a part of the International Charity Model Search benefiting Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep.  She has submitted a WONDERFUL family photo and now all we have to do is go online and vote! It is a dollar per vote and you can vote as many times as you'd like.   All the proceeds go to NILMDTS.  I personally think they ARE the cutest family on there, but then again,  I guess I am a little partial :) Just click on this link , and find Boyette (the adorable couple kissing with sweet baby looking up at them with balloons in hand).  For those of you who aren't familiar with this organization, I have asked Krissy to be a guest on my blog to explain the significance of this very extraordinary foundation.  So now I am going to happily hand my blog over to Krissy....

First I would like to say what a Wonderful Blessing it is to be a Mother of a healthy little girl. I cherish every day I have with her and could not imagine her not being in my life. You will have to bear with me, I am not so good with words. I am going to borrow some things from the NILMDTS website to explain some more about the charity itself.

"Pregnancy and birth are miraculous journeys. This amazing time of life is full of mystery, anticipation, joy, hope and wonder. Feeling the powerful energy of birth and new life, watching as a new family is born unto each other. These things humble and amaze. These are the things we celebrate when a baby is born. But there is another aspect of pregnancy and birth. There is an unexpected place in this journey where some families may find themselves. When a baby dies, a world is turned upside down. There is confusion , sadness, fear, and uncertainty that cannot be explained. There is sorrow where there should have been joy. During this time, it might be impossible for families to know what they might need in order to heal in the future.
This is the place where the Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep Foundation gently provides a helping hand and a healing heart. For families overcome by grief and pain, the idea of photographing their baby may not immediately occur to them. Offering gentle and beautiful photography services in a compassionate and sensitive manner is the heart of this organization. The soft, gentle heirloom photographs of theses beautiful babies are an important part of the healing process. They allow families to honor and cherish their babies, and share the spirits of their lives. The NILMDTS mission statement is to introduce remembrance photography to parents suffering in the loss of a baby with the gift of professional portraiture. We believe these images serve as an important step in the family's healing process by honoring their child's legacy."

This is a wonderful foundation and I want to greatfully thank everyone that votes! ~ Krissy

Irresistable

So now let me explain these.  Madelyn is quite the shopper as you can see in the first pic.  She also LOVES her bubba and spends most of her time laying on him like this.  And last but certainly not least, Madelyn dressed herself last night.  This is Snow White's skirt that she very cleverly used as a dress.  She accessorized with her teal blue and yellow sunglasses and her rockstar microphone. I MUST have a little star on my hands.

Happy St. Patty's!

Well it's that day again!  The one that I ALWAYS remember to wear a very obvious amount of green because of that horrible girl who pinched me in middle school even though my birthstone on my ring was green.  Ugh, that girl not only left a HUGE bruise, but scarred me for life I think.  Anyway, happy St. Patty's day!
Madelyn and I were all set for a fun and very green get together with all our new friends.  While Jeremy attended the hockey game, we made a few green clover shaped krispie treats.  We also made some plain ones after I realized that Madelyn WOULD NOT touch the green ones. ha!  So, I assorted them on the new tray I had Jeremy pick up for me and very lovingly covered them in preparation for today. (I won't post a picture of them.  I'm sure most of you know what a krispie treat looks like/how to make one/and what a clover looks like as well.)  I also made sure to buy a very green shirt for myself~ to keep those tiny little pinchers AWAY from me, and that Madelyn's green polka dot dress was clean.  We spent so much time getting ready for today. 
All of that, and we wake up to decide we're not going.  I guess Madelyn wanted to make sure that Daddy came home last night because she woke up SO early.  All of you who know me know that I am not, I repeat NOT, a morning person at all.  Well guess what!  Madelyn is exactly like me when she wakes up earlier than she's used to.  We had a very cranky little girl on our hands and she had a very cranky mom trying to handle things.  Well, actually, since Jeremy was still home, I had him deal with it since I feel her waking up early was to see him.  But still, I was not happy about this hour less of sleep.  After much consideration, and a lot of whining from Madelyn, I cancelled our plans.  I just was not dealing with a moody child this morning.  So now we're left with two batches of krispies...hmm, I'm sure I know what will happen with these.  They're kinda addicting you know :) 
Oh well, my point is, that sometimes, you just need a break.  We've been going so much lately that today was my breaking point and obviously Madelyn's too.  We needed a day of rest and we certainly won't be getting that on the weekends since *hopefully* our beautiful weather is back.  So, Madelyn and I have watched lots of Dora today, enjoyed a small morning nap, ate a noodle filled lunch, and are now on our second half of Dora day.  We may even do one last St. Patty's art project later... if we feel like it. AND we may even get out of our pajamas, but I doubt it.  I don't think Jeremy was very pleased about me backing out after making all those krispies, but I promised him I'd return the shirt and the other items I didn't use.  Oh well, he'll get over it.  Anyway, I wish you the very best day!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Princess Party

Madelyn attended her very first all girl princess party today!  She and some of her new friends got all prettied up in their princess stuff and had a great time.  Here's a couple pics I snapped before we left the house.

All decked out!


Excuse the runny nose, this is the best pic I could get.


Waiting for her chariot to arrive.

**I also have one of her on the royal throne.  But, I'll keep it to myself :)


 

Monday, March 15, 2010

Today's realization

Finding new mommy friends is VERY similar to dating again.  (Online dating if you factor in that I found these ladies through meetup.com.)

Explanation:  I initially joined two groups of moms.  Then, one I really wanted to join opened up, so I couldn't pass that up.  So, I am a member of three different groups.  After going to the first "blind date" of each, and hanging out on the message boards, I think I've found some potential friends :) Today, I had a message from one of the girls wanting to get our girls together again this week.  I swear I felt like a little girl who just got asked out on her first date.  haha It's so sad to be out of the "game."

D Dora has moved in.

Madelyn is in LOVE.  All she wants to do is watch "D Dora," or have her stickers, or band aids or whatever it is that has Dora on it.  Point in case:

Yesterday after church, we went out to lunch and then took Madelyn to play at the park.  ** Please keep in mind she hasn't had a nap all day**  Madelyn had a princess band aid on a "boo boo" that she had gotten from the park on Saturday.  She wanted the band aid off, so Jeremy took it off.  She didn't realize that it wasn't a sticker and wanted it to stick back to her skin.  BIG PROBLEM. We had the worst break down I've experienced.  In the car, going to the mall, Madelyn was freaking out over her "sticker" not sticking to her anymore.  After trying EVERYTHING imaginable to cheer her up (and get her to stop whailing  in order to protect Mommy's sanity),  I look over to my left and see my saving grace in the disguise of CVS Pharmacy.  I asked Madelyn if she wanted me to get her some Dora band aids instead, and can you believe that stopped her from crying.  I had Jeremy whip into the nearest parking spot, and very sheepishly told him I'd go in myself to keep him from having to.... I think I took a good five to ten minutes in there "looking" for Dora band aids. I found the band aids in the first two minutes of entering, but I took my time looking for stickers instead .  Just in case you didn't know, pharmacy band aids were almost $4.00 No way was I spending that much money on Hello Kitty- nope no Dora- when I knew I could go to Wal Mart later that night and spend around $2.00 and get what I wanted.  Anyway, found the Dora stickers/activity pad which was still outrageous but headed to the checkout.  A few minutes later, we had a very happy, sticker filled little girl.  We even managed to make it through our weekly Wal Mart trip with little to no chaos.  I did, however, have to peel about 12 Dora stickers off the cart handle.  Those outrageously priced Dora stickers were well worth it in my mind. 

Anyway, Dora is on, again, and it made me think of this obsession of Madelyn's.  You know, I really don't care much for Dora myself.  But if all it takes is to grab something with that little girl's face on it for Madelyn to return to the angel I know she is, I'll probably do it any day.  Does that mean she's spoiled? Maybe. Does it mean I'm a terrible mom for giving in to a fit- HUGE FIT mind you? Probably.  Does it save my sanity and keep me from completely snapping on my almost two year old daughter? Absolutely.   


Here she is sporting her new Dora band aid while watching, you guessed it, Dora! 

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Riverwalk

This past week we discovered an area downtown right on the river.  It's pretty new to Tampa and it's called Riverwalk.  Well, we knew about it, but we just haven't visited until now.  We LOVE it. 
My mom and I took Madelyn and Asher the other day.  There is a sand play area, a jungle gym, and a splash park that will be opening up soon!  It's a great place to take Madelyn if I don't want to drive to the beach.  It's also pretty cool to be in the middle of the downtown scene and have some green space for the kids and dogs to run around.  Also, at the end of the day, there is a cafe that overlooks the river to sit and have the BEST white sangrias ever.  Anyway, we went back today and I snapped a couple of pics while we were there.  Enjoy!

This is from when my mom and I visited.  Probably one of the greatest pictures of the kids in a while.  We'll be missing Asher for a couple months while he's back with his mom. 

I kinda favor this one :)


Daddy love


My life, my love


This is the pic of someone who is extremely blessed... Hope your day was as good as ours.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Susan G Komen

  When I told my dad about doing the March of Dimes and that I thought I may do the Susan G. Komen three day, he thought I meant the run. Nope, I definately meant walk (three days of running NO WAY). There is a 5k run affiliated with the Susan G. Komen as well though. It is on Oct. 2nd.
    I am facing a terribly difficult decision.  I've been toying with the idea of running for a while now.  However, I have NO drive and NO discipline.  I want to run, I truly want that sense of accomplishment and feeling of being free when you run. 
   I would really enjoy sharing this with my dad.  I think it would be nice to have something that we do together and something that I could hold on to for years to come.  I also think this would be a good thing to share with Madelyn someday.  I mean, all in all, if I could get it together, there are really only positives in this equation.   My question, to myself I guess, is am I able to stay focused and get up to three miles by October?  My dad seems to think that I'd have it in a month, I think he's crazy. I'm SO out of shape and the years of cheerleading and softball are way long gone.   So now I'm curious and need your help.  Should I do it and if so, what are some tips to get started?   

Welcome

   When I first began this blog, I wasn't sure that I wanted friends and family to know. I just wanted a place to be able to sit and write.  Whether it was funny, sad, irrelivant, or just to brag on Madelyn.  I wasn't prepared at the time to share my thoughts, ones that I may even have trouble talking to Jeremy about, with other friends and family.  I just wanted to be able to write without being judged by the ones closest to me.
  Well, the time has come.  I've decided that I'm okay with those people knowing just what I think, or the things that are going on in my life.  I think most of my friends who know me the best will know by the "tone" of my post if it's one that I am willing to talk about or maybe just one that a simple comment would work best for.  I hope that my blog will become a good place for everyone (who is even interested) to keep up with me and my family.  I tend to write more than talk (I'm not much of a phone person).
   Now, going right along with this.... I think I may have managed to offend my very best friend by keeping my blog to myself.  So to this person I say:  Please know that I had NO intention of hurting your feelings and I certainly didn't want to keep the things I write about from you.   You of all people know that I tell you everything--it just may take a while.  I am so very excited that you are a part of this now, along with other friends and family.  This just makes it easier for me to let you know what is going on since we tend to get so busy that we sometimes can't find five minutes to talk.  I also am now confident that I won't be boring EVERYONE who reads my posts because you get excited over the same little things as I do. Please, if I hurt your feelings in any way, accept this as my deepest apology--and I will quiz you daily to see if you've been keeping up! hehe.
   Welcome to my friends who are just now discovering my blog.  Since most of my friends and family are many many miles away, it is so difficult to stay in touch.  I hope you will check back often and that I can share my life with you a little more now.     

Thursday, March 11, 2010

March Of Dimes

As I've mentioned in a previous post, Madelyn and I have taken the opportunity to become more active in our community with other moms and children.  We are having a great time and have stayed so busy.  We've also had the privilage to join in  on walking for the March of Dimes.  I've decided this is a win win all around.  We get to support a foundation that works so hard to raise money for premature children, we get a little exercise ( 3 mile walk), Madelyn gets to visit her new friends, and Jeremy has no choice um, gets to join in as well :)   So, if you'd like to help me reach my goal--I'd really love to go beyond it--please click on this link or click on the badge at the top of my page.  I'd really appreciate any support you may be able to give!  Thanks and wish me luck! I'll be sure to update you on how sore I am after the fact :)

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Rest in Peace

Earlier today, I learned that sweet Layla Grace has passed.  She went to her forever home early this morning.  Please keep her family in your thoughts as they lay her to rest.  It's difficult enough to lose a loved one who is an elder, I couldn't and would never want to imagine having to say goodbye to my child.  They will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Monday, March 8, 2010

AHH best day E-V-E-R (as of now)

  Okay, last post today, I promise.  Today marks a very special day in Madelyn's milestones :)  She was sitting in the bath and said "momma." So I said "huh?"  She then said the very best words ever created.  "I uv you!" aaahhhh!! I am SO excited and overjoyed to be the very first person she's said this to. 
  Let me clarify.  She will say I love you or I love _____ if you ask her to repeat after you.  But today, I didn't say anything about it.  I never even brought the word love up while she was in the bath tub.  It was never prompted. So, this makes me extra special :) hehe.  Have a good day, mine just became great!

So thankful.

  Madelyn was SUCH a handful this weekend.  She wasn't sleeping well, had us up unusually early, didn't really nap, and was super whiney.  Honestly, there were moments I wanted to lose it and SCREAM to the top of my lungs.  She didn't have any fever, didn't seem like her tummy hurt, I didn't feel any new teeth, nothing.  It was just one of "those" weekends.  There was nothing I could do.  Just about the time I'd want to be a little more stern and lose my temper, little Layla Grace came into mind.  Every Time.
  I am seriously not overexagerating on this at all.  It doesn't matter how big of a headache I had, or that I had to just walk away for a few minutes--to get my bearings straight--or that I looked like "that parent" who couldn't control her child.  The second Layla Grace entered my mind, I just got down on Madelyn's level, spoke softly, and went on our way.  I was taking a step back and remembering that I'd much rather have this child than one who is fighting for her life.  I'd take a million days of Madelyn on her very worst day than to have to put myself in Layla Grace's parents' position. For those of you who are unaware of who I am talking about, Layla Grace is a little girl who was diagnosed with cancer at 18 months old, I believe.
  They are currently sitting.  Waiting.  Praying that God takes her with as little pain as possible.  I think she's been lying there for going on two weeks now.  Seriously, if your heart can take it, having insight into this family's fight is reason enough  to take a look at how you view your own life.    Having a young daughter myself, I can only imagine the pain the entire family is going through.   I couldn't and wouldn't want to imagine fighting for over a year to save my daughter and then, in the end, having to watch her die.  This family's faith in God is the strongest I've ever seen.  Instead of kicking and screaming and blaming (which is quite possibly what I might do), they have held on tight to the knowledge that God has a plan for their beautiful little girl.
  After going through what they already have, and now waiting for Layla's last breath, they still have bills upon bills to cover as well.  Now lets be honest here.  Yes, we have bills.  AND we have a house in South Carolina that we're trying to rent out which is forcing us to pay two house bills again.  Jeremy is still busting his hiney to work his way back up in his new job.  I am missing my friends in Mississippi like crazy, and have no way of seeing them until next month.  My nephew is going back to his mom's this week and we won't see him again until May.  And, as some of you may already know via previous post, my mom isn't doing so hot right now and who knows where that will end up.   
 But, none of this, NONE OF THIS, is as bad as what this family is going through.  There are so many people out there who have it way worse than us.  We are so incredibly blessed and rarely take the time to notice and be thankful. We have our family, we have clothes, we have food, we sleep comfortably, I could go on and on but I'll spare you.  Therefore I leave you with this:

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11

Strawberry Festival

We visited the Strawberry Festival this weekend with some friends and family.  I got some really cute pictures of Madelyn that I wanted to share with you.  Enjoy!
She recently learned that gators say "chomp,chomp,chomp"


One of the very few good pictures I have of the two of us.

Madelyn and her partner in crime :)





 I just couldn't resist... A couple more pictures of that cute little ponytail!

Friday, March 5, 2010

Spring Flowers

Well, my Valentine's day flowers Jeremy got me finally withered away and died.  So, in celebration of spring, Madelyn and I made our very own flowers to replace them!  I thought I'd share.  I have to say, they look pretty awesome for having a twenty two month (It's her 'birthday' today!) little girl doing most of the assembling.  If you're interested in doing this here's how it's done....

Materials you'll need:  construction paper (several colors plus green and yellow), glue, & scissors. 

Cut long strips of construction paper.  Fold the green in half and glue down.   Then roll the green strips up to make the stems.  For the bloom, cut slits a little more than halfway down the other strips. 
Next, take the bloom piece and run glue all the way down the part that has not been slit.  Begin at one end and roll the bloom onto the green stem.

Then, fray all the slit edges creating the petals.

Afterwards, roll a small yellow ball with construction paper and glue it into the middle.
Have your little one take a look at what he or she did and then...
Display! 

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Shopping the day away

Jeremy wasn't feeling well today, so he worked at home.  In order for him to get ANYTHING done, Madelyn and I decided it'd be best for us to leave.  We had such a good day together.  She's getting to the age where we can actually go and do girl things and enjoy it. So, we went shopping for her Easter outfit.  Not much luck in that department, but we did get a few cute little things. At the first store, we came out with a couple of barettes (one turtle, and one bunny) a CUTE bracelet "just like" Grammie's, and a sucker....because she was SO good.  Then, we went into a green boutique.  I was the lucky duck there :) I got a really cute sun dress for $25!  STEAL!!! Well, we thought we'd end the day by visiting the cupcake boutique.  Madelyn got one cupcake, a chocolate chip cookie, and a chocolate bunny sucker.  NO we didn't eat all of that at once, but YES... Madelyn was on a MAJOR sugar high.  Oh well, every once in a while it doesn't hurt to spoil your child as long as he/she deserves it :)  Last but not least, we visited our neighborhood Once Upon a Child.  I must say,  as I've never been in there, I was very surprised at the selection and came out with two dresses for $13 dollars!  Anyway, here's a couple of pics....

Cupcakes = YUM!

Oh what a day! So cute with her mini bags :)

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

To the beginning of friendship!

Since moving here from South Carolina, it's been very difficult to find friends our age who also have children.  It's been a long almost year and a half without having some "girl time."  Answer to my problem... meetup.com and MOMS club.  Yep, I've resulted in internet friendship.  I've yet to begin the MOMS club but papers are filled out and sent in, just waiting approval.  Today, however, Madelyn and I enjoyed our first outing with our meetup group. 
We met up at a local outside mall for storytime and face painting.  The weather was ridiculous and all of us almost left before we even found each other.  But, we didn't let that stop us.  The kids got to play some really cool african drums and Madelyn had fun doing that for just about five minutes.  Then she said forget this and decided she wanted to dance to the music the other kids were making!  Madelyn didn't get her face painted although she wanted it.  We'll try next time.  She did, however, score a pretty cool elmo doll from the Busch Gardens table.  (On a side note, Busch Gardens is giving a free annual pass to children under five to promote their new Sesame Street children's area.  Check their website for details. )  Anyway, a few of the places around were offering "kids eat free" so we took advantage of that as well.  You wouldn't believe how good it felt to talk to other women -- who are not my family-- and just talk, about anything.
And now we're home, Madelyn is passed out from playing so hard, and I'm able to relax with a little peace and quite :)  "This could be the start of a beautiful friendship!" haha just had to do it :) Oh and check this out....

See that!  That's her first ponytail!  We finally have enough hair to look like a girl! YAY.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Layla Grace

While on a popular mommy site today, I kept coming across the name Layla Grace.  Come to think of it, I've seen it several times but never thought anything of it.  Today, my curiousity got the best of me and I went searching.  What I found totally breaks my heart and I want nothing more than to give the world to this little girl and her family and then hug Madelyn tighter than ever before.  If you're interested, laylagrace.org is the link to their page.  I am warning you ahead of time.  BE PREPARED TO CRY.  I ask that if you read this, and do pray, that you will.  So now, I'm off for the rest of the day to hug my baby a little tighter, kiss her a little more, and thank God for her health. 

~Craft Day~

Asher asked if he could spend the night last night.  As a result, we had a craft day this morning to keep them busy.  The first project I quickly thought up lasted as long as it took me to think it up... NOT LONG ENOUGH!  Here's a pic of the finished product inspired by March and the hope for warm weather.

Next, I decided to get a little braver.  I used to do this all the time with my daycare children but then it wasn't my own house to clean up afterward.  I let the kids make playdough.  Yes, we have the store bought kind, but I was really looking for something the two of them haven't experienced before.  It was definately a hit!  They had a great time pouring the ingredients and then, with a little help from me, mixing them all together.  After they were finished, I let them each choose a color and then I mixed that in for fear of stained hands (kitchen gloves are great!).  I have a feeling Asher has determined that Brit Brit's house = arts and crafts.  Every time he comes over I ALWAYS find something for them to do. It makes them happy and quiet (for a few minutes) and, in turn, me happy as well!